Buddhist meditation aims at cleansing the mind of impurities and disturbances, such as desires, hatred, anger, laziness, worries, restlessness, and doubts, and at cultivating such qualities as tranquility, awareness, confidence, energy, empathy/love and wisdom, leading finally to the attainment of enlightenment, which is seeing all things, and ourselves, as they truly are (impermanent and without substance).
Buddhist meditation is not primarily about reducing stress, nor is it about “blissing out” or having visions or out-of-body experiences, although these can be side-effects.
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Relax in a safe, quiet place. Be as comfortable as possible.
Try to clear your mind. Try to think of nothing. There is nothing. You are nowhere. Your mind is completely blank and at peace. You are floating, bodiless, in empty space. Enjoy this state of peaceful nothingness.
Think about the preciousness of life. You are lucky to be alive, lucky to be a human being, lucky to have intelligence, and lucky to have time to think. Despite all of your problems, think about how lucky you are. You could have been born an animal, only concerned with eating, drinking and having sex. You have been blessed with a wonderful mind. By controlling and focusing your own mind, you can have tremendous power.
Understand how we influence our own reality. Our past thoughts, words and actions have led to our present reality. Our current thoughts, words and actions are sowing the seeds of our future. We have the power to change the future.
Recognize the impermanence of all things. Everything comes and goes. Nothing lasts. Nothing stays the same. All things, good and bad, come and go. Look back at your own life and see how this is so. Watch people, events, and things come and go, come and go, come and go.
Recognize that wisdom, peace and enlightenment are priceless gifts we give ourselves, and that we cannot truly benefit others until we can see clearly and are at peace ourselves.
Recognize that there is a Buddha within all of us, a wise, peaceful, enlightened being which lives to benefit others. Imagine yourself doing kind, noble, heroic things for others. You are forgiving those who have wronged you. You are helping those in pain. You are making peace. Allow this Buddha become stronger and let go of your own desires and preferences. Let go of your fear. You are without substance, impermanent, an illusion. You are also eternal, endless and perfect. Your essence is without substance, so it can’t be destroyed.
Recognize that you are not separate from the world and others, that this separation is an illusion. There is no self. There is no other. The pain of others is your pain. And your pain is painful for others. If you ease someone’s pain, you are easing your own pain. If you strike someone, you are inflicting pain on yourself.
Repeat several times, aloud or in your mind:
May all beings be free from hardship. May I help free them from hardship.
May all beings be at peace. May I help them be at peace.
May all beings achieve enlightenment. May I help them achieve enlightenment.